Men and women are not that different, in fact they all think very alike when it comes to relationships. In the beginning of a new relationship, a man will be very attentive to his new girlfriend; calling her every day, bringing her flowers and gifts, taking her out, and even doing things that he's not comfortable with, just to please her. This is not uncommon for new relationships. But after they both get acquainted with each other, I mean have sex; things can sometimes change very quickly. So there are signs that you should look out for.

When getting into a new relationship, try to keep a journal on your boyfriend or girlfriend. What I mean is pay attention to the way they routinely do things with you when you are both alone, and when he or she is with your friends, and family. You can learn a lot about a person habits when they are in different environments. If your boyfriend or girlfriend usually calls you at a certain time of the day, and suddenly changes, that can be the first sign of things to come.

On the other hand, if you live with your boyfriend or girlfriend, the signs can be; changing the way he or she normally do things around you like:

1. If you both change in front of each other, and he or she starts to hide when changing in front of you.
2. They come home and goes to the shower before getting close to you.
3. They not paying a lot of attention to you as they first did.
4. They had to work late.
5. Saying that they would be at one place, when they at another place.
6. Coming home late and getting into bed, trying there best not to wake you up.

If you noticed any of these signs, something is properly going on. Confront your boyfriend or girlfriend, and ask what's going on, without communication, a relationship don't stand a fear change of lasting. Before you get into any relationship, every one should be up-front and honest about what they are, so that no one gets hurt in the end.